Showing posts with label Munnabhai. Show all posts
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Monday, May 3, 2021

Just Don't Be A "Munnabhai"!

 

Just Don’t Be A “Munnabhai”!

OR

10 Things Not To Learn From Munnabhai

(Life Coaching Series)

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Inspiration is what fuels our emotions and leaders who appeal to our emotions are the ones who inspire us. Cinema or the film industry goes a long way in shaping the psyche of a society or that of a an entire nation. Sometimes, this can be counterproductive. Let me draw your attention to two similar movies viz. Patch Adams and Munnabhai M.B.B.S. Many of you would have watched at least one of these movies. Though, both movies have a similar plot but the protagonist played by Robin Williams is quite different from that of Sanjay Dutt. Both the movies have been quite popular with their respective audiences. Not being a film critic, I will not get into the nitty-gritties of the storyline. However, both the movies have had a tremendous impact on the mindset of the general public. This brings us to the current topic of leadership and how some people subconsciously misinterpret what they see on the silver screen.




In my experience, I have observed that ineffective leaders often don the garb of Munnabhai and try to steal the show with their mere presence rather than doing something worthwhile. It is very imperative for organizations to identify such tendencies in their leaders and coach them for effectiveness.

Hence, rather than what we can learn from the character of “Munnabhai”, I will be focusing on what kind of unlearning needs to be done in order to be a good leader. Here are the key takeaways: 

1.       Stick to the agenda – Just as in the movie Munnabhai interrupts during an inaugural session asking a seemingly naΓ―ve question - Do we have to fill the form?, we all have co-workers who might do that in regular meetings. The insecure leader often tries to divert the flow of conversation into something that is not part of the agenda. Such leaders often cause disinterest in the project and can even sabotage your useful time. I can quote Elon Musk here – “Walk out of a meeting if you feel it is not useful”.

 

2.       Do not run a parallel story – Storytelling is an art and it goes a long way in getting the buy in from the stakeholders, be it your customer or the top management. In the movie, Munnabhai attempts to create parallel stories at various points like setting up a makeshift hospital and pretending to be a doctor when his parents come to visit or when he cooks up a false story during a marriage proposal, etc. He keeps repeating the formula until a time comes when he inflicts self-injury to prevent himself from being rusticated from the medical college. Many leaders often fall into this trap where they try to run parallel stories in order to influence the outcome of a particular task or project in their favor. Eventually they end up hurting themselves or the organization.    

 

3.       Avoid gimmickry – A blatant mockery of the medical profession is made in the movie especially when Munnabhai calls to treat a paralytic patient humanely by addressing him with his name instead of using the word “subject”. Well, it can be dismissed when done for entertainment purposes. As opposed to the theme of the movie, it is a well-known fact that emotions can hinder the precision of a surgeon. Likewise, in a business setup a leader must never attempt using gimmickry and hope for magic just as in the movie where the patient miraculously starts responding to Munnabhai’s tricks. For example, too much use of jargon where most of the team or stakeholders do not get it, is a waste of everyone’s time, energy and resources. Elon Musk’s view – “Focus on the product and not power-point” is very much valid in this scenario.    

 

4.       Accept what is not understood – There is a scene where Munnabhai confesses to his bosom friend Circuit that though he had broken bones of many, but he had no idea that the human body is made up of 206 bones until getting into this medical school. In a real-world scenario, one does not get the opportunity to learn after the opportunity itself is lost. Hence, leaders must at times upskill themselves and accept what is not understood upfront before the beginning of any project. If the realization dawns at a later stage, it can lead to wastage and cost a lot of resources to meet up with the loss. 

 

5.       Do not sell dreams – It is a plain simple advice – do not sell dreams unless you are a marketing or a sales guy. In the movie, a terminal cancer patient is made to cheer up through a sensuous date with a hooker sent to the hospital. Well, this might suit the plot of the movie but will crash all your expectations amid reality. A good leader must never attempt to please his stakeholders for the sake of personal benefit or any other ulterior motive. The true picture must be presented with facts and a sinking project must not be used for siphoning off resources.    

 

6.       Be actionable – There is a scene in the movie where Munnabhai says “Thank You” and gives a magical hug “Jaadu Ki Jhappi” to one of the housekeepers who usually remains agitated possibly due to insensitive behavior of others around. Though this is a beautiful concept that connects with everyone at an emotional level, ineffective leaders use the very same “formula” to manipulate the perception of the co-workers. Whenever there is a problem that everyone is trying to solve, there are some leaders who will suggest something that seems quite attractive or appealing initially but fails to deliver the results in the end. As a result, the organization loses on optimization and service delivery results go nose-diving.   

 

7.       Do not downplay – In one scene, when a seriously emaciated Parsi patient is brought in for treatment and put on an IV saline, Munnabhai retorts at the doctors saying “Just feed him through the mouth” implying that there is no need of the standard treatment. The scene is stretched later, wherein the patient himself gets up to play carrom and drinks juice after his curiosity is awakened. Many leaders at times engage in downplaying various matters like the expertise of their team, criticality of the problem, inherent risk, etc. Irrespective of the reason behind this sort of behavior, downplaying any critical component of an enterprise will always lead to rework, rejection and failures.  

 

8.       Do not overshadow – Throughout the movie, Munnabhai overshadows all other characters who are made to look funny at various points of time. That makes a good script and screenplay for a comedy movie but falls flat when it comes to ground reality. Sometimes, leaders spread themselves across all aspects of a project or across all processes of an organization. They do so to hide their insecurity and lack of trust with the team. This may deliver quick wins initially as people perceive you to be a star but will surely make your image wither out in the long run as they start realizing your true worth or rather lack of it. 

 

9.       Do not bite more than you can chew – The whole movie revolves around the plot of Munnabhai wanting to become a “real” doctor. He fraudulently secures admission in one of the best medical institutes, drags on till the end but utterly fails in his final viva exam. In our zeal to achieve something more, to do what has not been done before and project a larger-than-life image, we forget our own limitations and end up overpromising and underdelivering. Many leaders fall prey to this type of mentality and end with abandoned projects or unsatisfied stakeholders.   

 

10.   Stay relevant – In one of the scenes, Munnabhai is asked to dissect a body and is given a scalpel which he holds like a knife. The professor smiles and advises him to hold it like a pen. This seemingly short yet funny scene describes how most leaders act in times of distress. I have seen many war-rooms and board meetings, where when encountered with a new situation or problem, most leaders usually fail to see the current scenario staring into their face. They almost always fall back to their prior experience and start quoting what they had done in a “similar” situation in their previous organization or assignment or project. What one has done previously may not be relevant at all to the matter at hand unless it is a case where specialist advice is needed. Thus, such leaders who lack critical thinking skills may lose their credibility over a period of time.     

All said and done – Just Don’t Be a Munnabhai!

DISCLAIMER: Anecdotal examples from the movie Munnabhai M.B.B.S. are provided to deliver the message. The author is neither endorsing the movie nor criticizing it in whatsoever manner. The takeaways have been developed by the author based on “Reverse Psychology” as part of his life coaching series. 

 

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